Racism in Korea (Part 2)

Racism isn’t limited to being charged extra or being refused service. Young Koreans are just as guilty, though perhaps in a more innocent way. For some Koreans, having a foreigner friend can make them seem worldly. They’ll brag to their other friends that they have a foreigner friend; you essentially become their pet in a handbag.

Guys and girls will date foreigners just to learn English. Korean guys will try to hook-up with foreign girls to add a ”notch in their belt.” Foreign girls, especially Americans, are perceived as slutty, and we are approached as such. Foreign men are seen as sexual devients, trying to steal away the poor, innocent Korean women.

And if you’re a foreigner dating a Korea, be prepared for stares. Mixed race couples, while becoming more common, are still seen as an oddity. The automatic assumption is that the Korean is dating the foreigner to learn English. If a Korean girl is dating a foreigner, the couple will get dirty looks because they think that the girl is a slut. If it’s a Korean guy and a foreign girl, the foreign girl will be thought of as a slut. There have been many occasions where my boyfriend and I have gotten hate glares from people. It should be noted here that most of these assumptions and glares come from older Koreans.

My boyfriend is Korean and I’m an American foreigner. Even though we met in the US and have been dating for more than a year and a half, my Korean friends still try to warm me that he is dating me to learn English. Why do they keep telling me this? Because it is such a common practice for Koreans to date foreigners to learn English. I became mad at one of my students who was going to study in the US when he told me that he wanted to date an American just so he could learn English. What’s worse about this is that Koreans who do this don’t even see it as wrong.

This video is about 2 years old and caused a firestorm when it came out. MBC never apologized for its racist content and things like this still air on Korean news.

In summary, not all Koreans are racist, and to think as such is blithely ignorant. Yet racism does exist, and it’s a huge problem. Korea’s government is pushing for more foreign tourism and foreign businesses to enter Korea. They are riding the Hallyu wave and are encouraging its growth, which is great. Yet, if Korea truly does want more foreign tourists and foreign business, it must stop letting these racist attitudes go unchecked. Being barred from a restaurant, bar, club, or taxi simply because you are a foreigner is simply unacceptable. These businesses need to be held accountable for their actions if Korea really does want to become a part of the globalized world. 

Racism in Korea (Part 1)

While Korea is a wonderful country filled with some of the kindest people I have ever met, racism is still a very large problem here. Korea is a “homogeneous” nation. They are a nation of one race—Koreans. And while this certainly isn’t a bad thing, the idea of having a homogeneous nation creates racist attitudes towards non-Koreans.

This article was posted the other day. Koreans are very upset by this and have been calling Bali racist. This article, along with some other incidents that have started to bother me about Korea’s attitude towards foreigners made me want to write this post.

So why did I share a link about Koreans getting banned from establishments in Bali? Because this is the exact same thing that happens to foreigners here. Foreigners are well aware of bars that ban foreigners *cough* Ho Bar *cough*. But bars aren't the only ones that are guilty; clubs, restaurants, and taxis are just as guilty.

This video (not mine) was taken in Itaewon. Itaewon is (in)famously foreigner and English friendly. The fact that this video takes place in Itaewon is astounding. As more foreigners enter Korea (as part of the government’s plan to attract tourists and foreign business), the fact that this trend is increasing, rather than decreasing is simply disturbing.

When I first came to Korea, I witnessed very little racism. The worst things I saw were Hongdae bars banning American military and old men asking if I was Russian (aka, was I a prostitute). Yet in these last 2 years in Korea, I have seen a dramatic shift in attitudes towards foreigners by business establishments.

When I was living in Ulsan, my Korean and foreign friends and I went to go to a club. They let our Korean friends in, but refused to let us in because we were foreigner. After telling them off, we all left the club. A few weeks later, a Canadian friend and I were trying to buy 김밥 (gimbap) for an activity we were doing with our students. The store we went to was famous for having the best gimbap in the area, and as expected, it was very crowded. We order the gimbap and were told it would be about 20 minutes until we got out gimbap. 20 minutes passed and the restaurant still hadn’t made our gimbap. They were now making orders for Koreans who had ordered after us. I decided to go inside and ask why it was taking so long. When I went inside, I looked the prep station; it was organized so that the order receipts were at top so that the orders could easily be seen and made. Our receipt was till at the end…with the word 외국인 (“weigookin”, foreigner) written in large letters across the top. As each new order came in, our order would be moved to the back. I talked to the owner and told her to cancel our order because we didn’t want to eat there anymore. The owner threw a fit and demanded that we pay even though they had not even made our gimbap. After a while of arguments, they finally made the gimbap, but tried to charge us extra. Incidents like this are far from rare nor are they limited to places outside of Seoul.

It’s not unheard of for foreigners to be refused service by a taxi, or charged extra by them. Restaurants are guilty of this practice, too.  Clothe markets like in Dongdaemun will charge extra if you’re a foreigner. 

I will continue the rest of this topic in the next post.

**Disclaimer** Not all Koreans and Korean places are like this. Most Koreans are incredibly friendly and welcoming. Don't let the 5% change your view on other 95%.